Understanding Bipolar Disorder: An Interview with My Brother

Bipolar disorder is a complex mental health condition that affects millions of people worldwide. Despite increased awareness, misconceptions and stigma still surround the disorder. To shed light on the realities of living with bipolar disorder, I interviewed my brother to discuss his journey—from diagnosis to daily management. His insights provide a candid and powerful look into the challenges, triumphs, and lessons learned along the way.

Personal Experience & Diagnosis

When were you diagnosed with bipolar disorder, and what was that process like for you?

I was diagnosed in my early twenties. It was both a relief and a shock. I knew something was off for years—mood swings, bursts of energy followed by crashes—but hearing “bipolar disorder” made it real. I felt scared but also hopeful because I finally had a name for what I was going through.

How did you first recognize that something was different about your mood or behavior?

I noticed that I would have these periods where I felt unstoppable and barely sleeping, making big plans, and spending money I didn’t have then out of nowhere, I’d crash. I couldn’t get out of bed, and everything felt pointless. I thought maybe I was just “moody,” but it started affecting my work, relationships, and daily life.

What were some common misconceptions you had about bipolar disorder before your diagnosis?

I thought bipolar disorder was just about being “really happy” or “really sad.” I didn’t realize it could involve racing thoughts, irritability, impulsive behavior, or even feeling invincible. I also thought it was rare, but it’s more common than I realized.

Living with Bipolar Disorder

What does a typical manic or hypomanic episode feel like for you?

For me, hypomania feels like I’m on top of the world. I’m confident, creative, and energized. I don’t need much sleep, and I feel like I can achieve anything. But it can quickly turn into irritability, racing thoughts, and making reckless choices. It’s a high that can be dangerous if I’m not careful.

How do depressive episodes impact your daily life?

Depressive episodes can feel like I’m moving through quicksand. Everything becomes overwhelming—getting out of bed, answering a text, even brushing my teeth. It can make me feel like a failure, even though I know it’s the illness talking. It isolates me from people I love.

What are some unexpected challenges that come with managing bipolar disorder?

unpredictability is tough. Even when I’m doing well, I sometimes worry about when the next episode might hit. Balancing medication side effects with feeling myself is another challenge. And trying to explain it to people who don’t understand can be exhausting.

How does bipolar disorder affect your relationships with family, friends, or colleagues?

It’s complicated. Some people are incredibly supportive, but others don’t get it. Manic episodes can make me seem unreliable, while depressive episodes can make me disappear. It’s hard to maintain friendships when I’m not always emotionally available. Communication and honesty have been key.

Coping & Treatment

What treatments or coping strategies have helped you the most?

Medication has been life-changing, though finding the right combination took time. Therapy has helped me recognize patterns and develop coping tools. Routine is huge—consistent sleep and reducing stress. Journaling also helps me track my moods.

How has therapy, medication, or other forms of support played a role in your journey?

Therapy helped me understand my triggers and taught me how to manage them. Medication helps stabilize my mood, though I had to work through the stigma of needing it. Support groups and talking with others who “get it” made me feel less alone.

What advice would you give to someone newly diagnosed with bipolar disorder?

Be patient with yourself. Finding the right treatment takes time, and you’ll have setbacks. Educate yourself!!! Knowledge is power. Don’t be afraid to lean on your support system. And know that you are not your diagnosis—you can still build a fulfilling life.

Breaking Stigma & Public Perception

What are some of the biggest misconceptions people have about bipolar disorder?

That we’re crazy or dangerous. That we’re constantly either manic or depressed, when most of us spend a lot of time in between. People also think medication is a “quick fix,” but it’s just one part of managing a complex condition.

How do you wish people would respond when they learn about your diagnosis?

With empathy and curiosity, instead of judgment. A simple “Thank you for sharing that” or “How can I support you?” means a lot. I don’t need special treatment, just understanding.

What role do you think the media plays in shaping how bipolar disorder is perceived?

Media often sensationalizes bipolar disorder—showing extremes like violent outbursts or erratic celebrities. It rarely shows the everyday reality: people working, raising families, managing their condition. We need more realistic, diverse portrayals.

Empowerment & Advocacy

How do you take care of your mental health daily

I prioritize sleep and structure my day. I check in with myself—am I feeling off? Am I skipping meals? Exercise helps regulate my mood, and I set boundaries to avoid burnout. I also practice self-compassion when things don’t go perfectly.

What do you wish more people understood about bipolar disorder?

That it’s not a personal failing. It’s a medical condition that requires treatment, like diabetes or heart disease. People with bipolar disorder can thrive with the right support. We’re not “broken”—we just experience the world differently.

What message would you like to share with others living with bipolar disorder?

You are not alone. Your diagnosis doesn’t define you. There’s no shame in needing help, and recovery is possible. You deserve love, support, and happiness—just like anyone else. Keep going, even on the hard days.

Final Thoughts

Bipolar disorder is not an easy journey, but my brother’s story is a testament to resilience and the power of seeking support. By sharing his experience, he hopes to challenge misconceptions, encourage open conversations, and remind others living with bipolar disorder that they are not alone.

Mental health awareness and education are crucial in breaking the stigma. If you or someone you know is struggling, don’t hesitate to reach out for help—there is hope, and support is available.